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samanthasmomstudios

Posts: 11

Los Angeles, California, US

I have friends that own a Casting Business in Los Angeles, and this was last year. I was sitting in on a casting session for a Rapper's Video. It was a open call, you know for those big booty calls!!! I was in and out of the office all day, I use their office sometimes for my own casting of Photography, and sometimes, very rarely I see a fresh face that comes into my friends office for those booty calls, I mean casting calls.

I noticed in the outer office a Old lady (with maybe a 15 year old daughter next to her),  maybe in her late 30's, and said to my friends who was casting for this Rapper's Video, you know they like young women, and I said to my friends 'aint she a lil old to be hired for this part?" 

Well, a few minutes past by, and the older lady with her younger daughter appeared in the main office with the two casting directors, and to my suprise, mom was not up for the "booty call" it was her 15 year old daughter!!!!


My two friends looked at me, and I looked at my to friends, and I went off!!! I told mom, what gives her the right to try to place her 15 year old daughter, who looked to be 12 in a Booty Call's Rappers Video!!!

I was stunned and completely amazed, that the mom said, that her daughter had begged her to take her here and try to cast her.  Wow.

I am not telling you all here, what the true words I said to mom, I did it right though, i told the tween daughter to step outside into the outside office. I told the mom, what a bleeping fool she was, and what kind of signal does that send her own daughter. I am still amazed by the mom's action.  And tells me what parents will do to use their own children to make a quick buck.

Feb 03 09 09:43 am Link

Photographer

Jade Noir

Posts: 7629

San Antonio, Texas, US

Wow.   Some parents are all about making money.  Even if it means pimping out their daughters.  It's a shame.

Feb 03 09 09:46 am Link

Model

Adriana Gerardino

Posts: 406

Tempe, Arizona, US

It's a crazy world. Luckily for me.. my mother never did that to me. Atleast you gave the mom something to remember.

Feb 03 09 09:48 am Link

Photographer

Vamp Boudoir

Posts: 11446

Florence, South Carolina, US

Old Lady at 30? WOW, just WOW

Feb 03 09 09:49 am Link

Photographer

LCJ Photography

Posts: 216

Schwenksville, Pennsylvania, US

Rebel Photo wrote:
Old Lady at 30? WOW, just WOW

That's Old with a capital O no less.

Feb 03 09 09:53 am Link

Photographer

AB-11

Posts: 273

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US

samanthasmomstudios wrote:
(...)I was stunned and completely amazed, that the mom said, that her daughter had begged her to take her here and try to cast her. (...)

So..., the girl asked the mom to take her to the casting.
Then... It was the girl's idea.
May be the mom didn't know the kind of video it was.
May be she just wanted to 'be cool' with her daughter.
May be she wasn't there "pimping" her daughter for the money.

Feb 03 09 09:55 am Link

Photographer

samanthasmomstudios

Posts: 11

Los Angeles, California, US

Rebel Photo wrote:
Old Lady at 30? WOW, just WOW

OLD as far as me thinking she was the one who wanted to be apart of a booty call video. Sorry, in her 30's is not old. But, as far as being a young hip booty girl, yeah over the hill!!! lol.

Feb 03 09 09:56 am Link

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Vamp Boudoir

Posts: 11446

Florence, South Carolina, US

I got it

...you're right about her being too old for a rap vid....but there are NUTS everywhere.

You're lucky she didn't rap your butt. big_smile

Feb 03 09 09:59 am Link

Model

-Jen-

Posts: 46880

Howell, Michigan, US

Judgemental much?

Feb 03 09 10:08 am Link

Photographer

JM Studios

Posts: 5962

Kansas City, Missouri, US

We could get into huge debates about "Shouldn't you also yell at yourself for doing casting calls for "Booty Call" videos that you know 15 year old girls are going to watch and want to emulate."  But who would want to call them self a hypocrite.  After all it was the child who really wanted to be in that video. Hmmmmmmm......who is more to blame here?  (I'm a teacher we like to play devils advocate!)

Feb 03 09 10:08 am Link

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MMDesign

Posts: 18647

Louisville, Kentucky, US

Moral superiority's a bitch isn't it?

Feb 03 09 10:11 am Link

Photographer

AB-11

Posts: 273

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US

A typical case of double standards?

Feb 03 09 10:12 am Link

Photographer

JM Studios

Posts: 5962

Kansas City, Missouri, US

Did you tell the mom to bring her daughter back in 3 years? Cause then she will be all grown up and ready to be in a "booty call" video!

Feb 03 09 10:16 am Link

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Doug Lester

Posts: 10591

Atlanta, Georgia, US

So, was the 15 year old hired for the video?

Feb 03 09 10:17 am Link

Photographer

J Sharp

Posts: 3437

Sacramento, California, US

Interesting use of the term "booty call".  Sounds a little opinionated to me.

Feb 03 09 10:18 am Link

Photographer

glamour pics

Posts: 6095

Los Angeles, California, US

Are you as foulmouthed and obnoxious in person, as you in the post, and as you relate your behavior in the post? And do you decide to be foulmouthed only to women, who are physically smaller than you? If the girl's father had brought her, would you have guttermouthed off to him, at the minor risk of him harming your handsome visage in the process of knocking you on your well-muscled derriere?

In addition, whatever reputation your "casting" friends and their office have, did you consider that your foul mouth might harm your FRIENDS?

Feb 03 09 10:23 am Link

Photographer

Sockpuppet Studios

Posts: 7862

San Francisco, California, US

samanthasmomstudios wrote:

OLD as far as me thinking she was the one who wanted to be apart of a booty call video. Sorry, in her 30's is not old. But, as far as being a young hip booty girl, yeah over the hill!!! lol.

You obviously have not seen my booty, I am 32 and I still am a damn fine looking bitch.

Feb 03 09 10:24 am Link

Photographer

Giuseppe Luzio

Posts: 5834

New York, New York, US

Rebel Photo wrote:
I got it

...you're right about her being too old for a rap vid....but there are NUTS everywhere.

You're lucky she didn't rap your butt. big_smile

hahaha my NUTS are everywhere LOL

Feb 03 09 10:24 am Link

Photographer

Giuseppe Luzio

Posts: 5834

New York, New York, US

M. Carle wrote:

You obviously have not seen my booty, I am 32 and I still am a damn fine looking bitch.

but NOT for a RAP video.....

Feb 03 09 10:25 am Link

Model

Lesha FFG

Posts: 761

Albuquerque, New Mexico, US

the girls idea or not, the mom should have done the right thing and NOT taken her to the casting call. tell her if that's what she really wants to do, she can wait until she's 18 and has no right to tell her no.

Feb 03 09 10:26 am Link

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Feral Oneiric

Posts: 5949

Portland, Oregon, US

MMDesign wrote:
Moral superiority's a bitch isn't it?

-Jen- wrote:
Judgemental much?

x2

Feb 03 09 10:26 am Link

Photographer

Laura Dark Photography

Posts: 6812

Columbus, Ohio, US

I'm 30 and I have news for you sir, I have a VERY hot ass.  Thank you very much.

Feb 03 09 10:29 am Link

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-Nicole-

Posts: 19211

Madison, Wisconsin, US

You use their space for photography, so what gives YOU the right to bitch out this woman who brought her daughter to a casting? If you weren't the casting agent, STFU.

And yeah, what Jen said. neutral

Feb 03 09 10:29 am Link

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LENA LoveLost

Posts: 1042

Friedrichshafen, Baden-Württemberg, Germany

That´s like this miss-stuff for three year old girls that have to walk on runway in front of the judges like real misses...

Some parents are really kind of mad.

How I am happy that my parents are not like this!

Feb 03 09 10:30 am Link

Photographer

remerrill

Posts: 3880

Arcata, California, US

JM Studios wrote:
We could get into huge debates about "Shouldn't you also yell at yourself for doing casting calls for "Booty Call" videos that you know 15 year old girls are going to watch and want to emulate."  But who would want to call them self a hypocrite.  After all it was the child who really wanted to be in that video. Hmmmmmmm......who is more to blame here?  (I'm a teacher we like to play devils advocate!)

Perhaps... Mom was hoping and praying the daughter would get shot down and forget her crazy dream... (I used to be a teacher and I still like to play devils advocate!)

Feb 03 09 10:30 am Link

Photographer

deek images

Posts: 2303

Auckland, Auckland, New Zealand

Did you see proof of ID proving the daughter was 15?
Did the mom push the girl, kicking and screaming, into the audition?
Was there any role in the music video that called for a younger girl? A daughter or other character that wouldn't be all booty poppin' and skankin' it up?


There are so, so many assumptions in your post.
(And so, so many parents that are probably far worse to/for their kids than this mother).

Feb 03 09 10:33 am Link

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American Glamour

Posts: 38813

Detroit, Michigan, US

Rebel Photo wrote:
Old Lady at 30? WOW, just WOW

I must be a dinosaur!

Feb 03 09 10:34 am Link

Photographer

JM Studios

Posts: 5962

Kansas City, Missouri, US

Wait is "booty call" the name of a rapper?  Or is it a video about "booty calls"?

I wonder if I change my name to Booty Call Photography, if I would be taken seriously? hmmmmm............

Feb 03 09 10:34 am Link

Photographer

Jade Noir

Posts: 7629

San Antonio, Texas, US

AB-11 wrote:

So..., the girl asked the mom to take her to the casting.
Then... It was the girl's idea.
May be the mom didn't know the kind of video it was.
May be she just wanted to 'be cool' with her daughter.
May be she wasn't there "pimping" her daughter for the money.

It's the MOTHER'S job to find this shit out.

If I were a parent, and MY daughter wanted to go to a casting, I'm going to make damn sure what KIND of casting it is.


And I don't get parents who want to be "cool" with their kids.   There's a line between being a cool parent who knows what's BEST for their kid versus just being stupid and letting your child do whatever the fuck they want.

Feb 03 09 10:38 am Link

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Lesha FFG

Posts: 761

Albuquerque, New Mexico, US

Jade Noir wrote:

It's the MOTHER'S job to find this shit out.

If I were a parent, and MY daughter wanted to go to a casting, I'm going to make damn sure what KIND of casting it is.


And I don't get parents who want to be "cool" with their kids.   There's a line between being a cool parent who knows what's BEST for their kid versus just being stupid and letting your child do whatever the fuck they want.

x10

Feb 03 09 10:41 am Link

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Feral Oneiric

Posts: 5949

Portland, Oregon, US

When I was 15, had I asked my mom, there probably would have been a pretty big argument about it, but I still would have likely won, and dragged my mom to the casting.

My mom never had anything to worry about me, sexually speaking. Some of the clothes she bought me back in the day still makes me blush!

When I was 17, I played a prostitute in our high school play. A really skanky, dirty prostitute. No one had any beef about that.

It had to do with a little thing called 'acting', in which you play a part that you in life do not typically fulfill, for the sake of getting a story or idea across. Commonly involves things like makeup and costumes, and generally no one gives two shits about someone's age in the final product.

Feb 03 09 10:42 am Link

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Rp-photo

Posts: 42711

Houston, Texas, US

Rebel Photo wrote:
Old Lady at 30? WOW, just WOW

I found that unsettling as well.

Feb 03 09 10:44 am Link

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MMDesign

Posts: 18647

Louisville, Kentucky, US

Laura Dark Photography wrote:
I'm 30 and I have news for you sir, I have a VERY hot ass.  Thank you very much.

Sorry, but without proof...  smile

Feb 03 09 10:46 am Link

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deek images

Posts: 2303

Auckland, Auckland, New Zealand

If the mom was 30 and the daughter was 15, the mom got pregnant with her around 14/15.
Just saying...

Feb 03 09 11:04 am Link

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Sin City Model

Posts: 178

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

Rebel Photo wrote:
Old Lady at 30? WOW, just WOW

LOL-after turning 32 yesterday... that comment stung a bit- I think I actually stopped reading after the "Old lady" comment when I realized he was talking about a 30 year old.

Feb 03 09 11:06 am Link

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-Nicole-

Posts: 19211

Madison, Wisconsin, US

deek images wrote:
If the mom was 30 and the daughter was 15, the mom got pregnant with her around 14/15.
Just saying...

Not surprising in the least.

Feb 03 09 11:07 am Link

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hjkydsly

Posts: 545

Charlotte, North Carolina, US

Feb 03 09 11:08 am Link

Photographer

DOUGLASFOTOS

Posts: 10604

Los Angeles, California, US

glamour pics wrote:
Are you as foulmouthed and obnoxious in person, as you in the post, and as you relate your behavior in the post? And do you decide to be foulmouthed only to women, who are physically smaller than you? If the girl's father had brought her, would you have guttermouthed off to him, at the minor risk of him harming your handsome visage in the process of knocking you on your well-muscled derriere?

In addition, whatever reputation your "casting" friends and their office have, did you consider that your foul mouth might harm your FRIENDS?

WOW, u missed this call. and yes, i would of told my true feelings to whoever brought that underage tween to be cast in a music video. it is you that missed what the whole meaning, so it is OK for your daughter to be selected to shake and gyrate her butt in a music video??? Foul mouth? yes. it is not right.

Feb 03 09 11:09 am Link

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-Nicole-

Posts: 19211

Madison, Wisconsin, US

Am I the only one who thought it was completely unprofessional and not even his PLACE to bitch at this woman?

Feb 03 09 11:10 am Link

Model

-Nicole-

Posts: 19211

Madison, Wisconsin, US

THOMASDOUGLASFOTOGRAPHY wrote:
WOW, u missed this call. and yes, i would of told my true feelings to whoever brought that underage tween to be cast in a music video. it is you that missed what the whole meaning, so it is OK for your daughter to be selected to shake and gyrate her butt in a music video??? Foul mouth? yes. it is not right.

So, you're name is Thomas and you're in LA and the OP's name is Thomas and he lives in LA as well?

lol

Feb 03 09 11:11 am Link